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Argh, My friend told the person that I like....

Thu Dec 30, 2004 12:59 am

That I like them. And that wasn't supposed to happen! If they were ever going to find out, it would've been now near now i'll tell ya that since i'm only starting to get to know them well now.

So yeah..... I'm going to try and deny it.

Thu Dec 30, 2004 1:08 am

Bleh, that's pretty cruddy that she told him. How did you find out though? And if you deny it, then you may never get your chance. A little courage can go a long way, and that's all it takes to tell him how you feel. I don't know, but I think you should try and talk it out with him and see if you can get together. You never know how understanding a person is untill you have "The Big Talk" with them.

Good luck to you! And try not to be too mad at your friend.

Thu Dec 30, 2004 1:13 am

AFI_Sorrow wrote:Bleh, that's pretty cruddy that she told him. How did you find out though? And if you deny it, then you may never get your chance. A little courage can go a long way, and that's all it takes to tell him how you feel. I don't know, but I think you should try and talk it out with him and see if you can get together. You never know how understanding a person is untill you have "The Big Talk" with them.

Good luck to you! And try not to be too mad at your friend.


Ive been told im a good liar, he doesn't know. and ive made my lie look like its directed at not just him:


"Did a person named Stormme tell you anything? She's been wanting to get even with me ever since I told Cooper something to do with her (something hideously embarassing obviously). And so anyways she thought she'd return the favor. Apparently, sometime in the past little while she got on my msn and got some addresses. so far she told Josh & Kyle, that I liked them and I'm wondering if she told you that too. (and yeah, I already typed this, because i'm probably going to have to ask a few other people and i really don't want to type this out over & over)"

Thu Dec 30, 2004 1:20 am

Errrgh... I know what it feels like when someone tells the person who like that you like 'em. Oh MAN is it embarrassing. Especially when you're me. No one likes me! x_X

It's only a matter of time 'til my friend blurts out who I like to everyone... Then he'll find out... waaaahhhh...

Though hopefully the dude you like will like ya back! :D

Thu Dec 30, 2004 1:25 am

Zero wrote:Errrgh... I know what it feels like when someone tells the person who like that you like 'em. Oh MAN is it embarrassing. Especially when you're me. No one likes me! x_X

It's only a matter of time 'til my friend blurts out who I like to everyone... Then he'll find out... waaaahhhh...

Though hopefully the dude you like will like ya back! :D


Im pretty sure he doesn't, to gloat about what she did, she sent me the convo.

it went kinda like this

Stormme: Hiya, Whats up
Him: Playing the guitar, who are you?
stormme: you know Candice?
him: yeah?
stormme: she has a thing for you, she kinda does, kinda doesn't. its confusing
him: I know what you mean, but I don't know her well at all.
Stormme: Im supposed to block you now i think, bye.

Thu Dec 30, 2004 1:27 am

Hmm... Well hopefully he'll try to get to know you?

Just tryin' to look on the bright side.

Thu Dec 30, 2004 1:28 am

Zero wrote:Hmm... Well hopefully he'll try to get to know you?

Just tryin' to look on the bright side.


I leave sunday, pretty well hopeless.

:oops:

Thu Dec 30, 2004 1:48 am

You could try to deny it, I would probably do that in your situation.

But then you could not deny it and say you wanna try to get to know him better? *shrugs* I'm not very good when it comes to this kind of advice :P

Thu Dec 30, 2004 9:07 am

well if you deny it it would be like saying you don't like him which will cause him to lose interest in you completely...he'll think you dont like him and so he'll never think about you..

You shouldn't deny it, whats done is done and you should try to make the best of the situation... based on this:
stormme: she has a thing for you, she kinda does, kinda doesn't. its confusing
him: I know what you mean, but I don't know her well at all.

at this point, he's either going to try to find out more about you to see if there is potential OR he has already made his decision and doesnt plan on having any relationship with you.. if you deny it, he might feel discouraged and that would pretty much make him think that since you arent interested in him then whats the point of him being interested in you...

Thu Dec 30, 2004 9:21 am

Yes, I agree SyNix! Great wording. :)

Lying gets you no where. Yep yep.

Thu Dec 30, 2004 11:30 am

Why not just admit it? Guys love girls with loads of confidence. Just don't expect anything. Ooo and also, crushes don't have to be anything you should be embarrased of, be proud of it instead!

Thu Dec 30, 2004 11:39 am

Take courage and if you like him then face the situation. :) Don't be scared getting into a relationship, show you're real self and you might have a chance with him. *waves flag* GO KOALA!!

Thu Dec 30, 2004 11:51 am

I wonder if I would consider your friend as a "friend" if I were in your place >.<

You could just completely deny it. Ooor you could sorta go "Stormme told me that you liked me too" if the guy asks, and if he denies it, then you deny your part. I'm not sure that will work out properly, though o.O

Thu Dec 30, 2004 1:36 pm

Ah, classic teenage drama.

Here's some advice:

Don't deny it. Tell him that it's true. The worst thing that could happen is that he doesn't like you, but he wouldn't have liked you even if you had told him herself. But maybe he DOES like you, so then everyone will pressure you to get together...

Thu Dec 30, 2004 2:24 pm

Best advice ever: "All they can do is say 'No', they can't eat you."

Fact: It's not the end of the world.

Whatever happens, you'll get over it eventually. Someday when you're 40, you'll look back on this sort of thing and laugh about how big a deal it was to you back then, and then reminesce about being young.

Just be honest. It won't cause the world to implode. Something good might come of it.

You can't make an omelette without breaking a few eggs. And you'll never get what you want in life unless you take a few risks.
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