I have this friend...

[Eskimo]

I need som eadvise on what to do.

I have this friend... and she keeps ignoring James and I. And we used to be best friends and so close, but now she is always shooting us dirty looks. I did nothing to upset her, and neither did James. She ignores us, and stuff when she isn't doing anything else. And one time, I won in teather ball against EVERYONE playing, inculding the best guy in our grade. I told her and she said, "Why do I care?!" and gave me the meanest look.

I don't get it and I don't know what to do.

[zorg]

Who is james?

And maybe you did something which really annoyed her accidentally... is she acting like this to all her freinds?

[Ginger Harp Seal Pup]

Maybe some other girls are influencing her. She may have gotten some new friends and peer pressure is what the problem is. These girls may not like you and James and are trying to part a good friendship.

This is only one possibility though. The best thing you can do is try and get her on her own and talk to her. Don't lose your temper, just talk to her, ask her questions about why she is doing this. Ask her if you did something to upset her and don't leave her until you've got answers.

I hope everything works out for you.

[Eskimo]

Me and James are just good friends.

But see that's the thing.. I can't think of anytime I've done ANYTHING to possible annoy anyone.. Nope, just me and James.

This is only one possibility though. The best thing you can do is try and get her on her own and talk to her. Don't lose your temper, just talk to her, ask her questions about why she is doing this. Ask her if you did something to upset her and don't leave her until you've got answers.

I have tied that and all she does is say nothing over and over again. But I KNOW something is wrong.

Last edited by Eskimo on Sat May 14, 2005 11:03 am, edited 1 time in total.

[Asthaloth]

or you said somthing completely offhand, which she took personally and now hates you.
i do that far less often than youd think, most people seem to know when i intend to insult them.

[Eskimo]

I dont think so

[Asthaloth]

thats the wonder of annoying people though.
you can do it without even realising.

[_jaye_]

Maybe she's jealous of your friendship with James? Or maybe she fancies James and is jealous of you? =P

[Twinkle]

Maybe she's jealous of your friendship with James? Or maybe she fancies James and is jealous of you? =P

Exactly what I was going to say. To me it sounds like she's intimidated by you.

[Shoyru_Lover]

Souinds like jealously to me.,

[Anubis]

Hm, yeah, well, has she gotten any other friends? If so, she might just prefer to be in their company for one reason or another. That happened to me.

If not, maybe she's just being hormonal. I don't know, I'd need to know the full facts.