Can I ask for a bit if good?

[Jasujo]

Hi all. This is going to be a very weird request. People come to PPT to meet with friends and for comfort when things go bad. I don't want to explain anything right now because my girls are up and I don't want to get upset in front of them. Things have been building up and building up lately and I hit a point today. I just read a message from a friend that kind of tipped the iceberg, so to say. There's only so much one person can take, eh? My hands are actually shaking as I write this and I am trying so hard not to cry. I was wondering, can someone/anyone please say something/anything nice and good? I just need to curb my emotions back to dealable and I'm having a bit of trouble. I'm sorry that this might seem extremely odd, but I really need some help right now. Thank you to anyone that responds. I really appreciate it.

[paola]

You know, I've always seen your posts as I lurk around. You seem really caring and giving. You have a great personality and great taste (as I've seen from the Entertainment board). I sincerely hope things get better for you. You're a great person in general, ya' know? *hugs*

[Crystal Cloud]

Aww, Jasujo. Just think that no matter how bad things may seem, no matter how terrible the situation is, things will always get better. There is a quote " Things will always turn out okay, if it isn't okay, then it's not the end. " Don't be sad, Jasujo. I know exactly how it feels. All bad experiences you go through build up, layer after layer, in a "cup". Sometimes this "cup" just overflows. Sometimes, you just need to let it all out to someone you trust. It helps, trust me. I'm sure everything will turn out okay. *hug*

[coming2atvnearu]

I usually try to steer away from these kind of posts, mostly because when all is said and done I pull a bull in a china shop routine... But if anyone deserves a pick up, its you.

The absoulte #1 thing that anyone notices about you is your incredible generosity. There's no way around it. End of story. You're always doing something helpful, be it a kind word, a helpful comment, or a well explained, well thought out opinion that is insightful but would never hurt.

Whatever is going on in your life, I hope that it passes and the good stuff comes back in full force because you are a person that deserves it.

[Lynx]

I don't really know you because I've never spoken to you, but from what I've gathered from reading your posts you're such a great person. You come off as friendly, helpful and just amusing. You just seem such a genuine positive woman.

I'm sure you have the strength to get through whatever it is that's bothering you right now, no matter how difficult or far away the solution seems to be.

[Caesara]

Jasujo, you seem like such a nice person. One thing that sticks out is your monthly giveaways. You save up neopoints, just to give things out to people who want them. That just strikes me as a very nice, and generous thing to do.

If you're willing, I'd love to talk to you once in a while, about absolutely nothing if necessary.

[SpiraLethe]

I wish I knew you well enough to say something meaningful. It's been said before, but I'll re-iterate since it's true. You're generous, helpful, kind and funny. I enjoy reading your posts. It seems you almost have something inciteful to add to a topic or a worthwhile read.

[Articfox]

Your very nice person, dedicated to writing thought out meaningful post and hardly see you being meaniswh to other members and what not, don't know what made you so upset but I can understand how you feel...well sorta.

[Charisma]

The time that I had a chance to talk to you in a chat, your personality really left an impact on me . You are a nice, intelligent person and I'm not the only one who has been able to see this, lots of others here have noticed your great qualities too. Look how much the members here can see from just what you post.

Whatever it is that is causing this, I know you will overcome it. Take it easy, know that you have friends here who you can talk to. Don't let things pile up on you, if you ever need to talk about things you can always PM me. I'm sure that your girls will be more than happy to give you two big hugs from me Good luck Jasujo.

[Fiddelysquat]

I've felt that way before when I found out a certain few people had nothing better to do than to gossip about others (including me) behind their backs, but you realize that their opinion doesn't matter. I rarely see genuinely generous people in my life. You are one of them. You don't expect glory, hero-worship, and payback when you give somebody something. I guess the best compliment I can give you is that the fact that you exist makes me want to be more generous. You made me want to be a better person.

[coming2atvnearu]

Grumble, I'm back because I remembered something. Two posts in a row where I'm not complaining, I think I'm going into withdrawal.

Anyhoo, its your girls. Everytime you mention them you can really feel how much you love and care for them. It really is a beautiful thing.

Again, good luck. now I'm going to go make fun of TNT before I start shaking.

[Kristina]

It's not an odd thing to say at all. Everyone needs a hug or someone to say something nice about them once in awhile. And you deserve it more than most. You are a very kind person, and every post you make is meaningful. Sometimes I wish I was like that.

Don't let anyone get you down. You're an amazing person so I hope everything goes well for you. Just remember we're here for you.

[Kitten Medli]

God bless you Jasujo. Whatever is the matter,PPT will be here for you.

You treat each person with such kindness and understanding you'd think you have known them for years. You are one of the most generous people I know I honestly do think your children and husband are blessed to have you in their lives,as well as everyone here at PPT. I hope all goes well for you.

[atomicblonde]

I'm really sorry sorry you're feeling like that. First of all:

If anyone deserves a big hug it's you. I really think that you're the first person on PPT that ever truly made my day. (Doubt if you remember this, but you PMed me to say you and your girls liked my sailor moon set. ^_^) Your posts are always great to read, and you seem like such a wonderful person.

If you ever want to talk to someone, please don't hesitate to drop me a note if you'd like to.

[shapu]

You know, it's kind of funny - a lot of us here, myself included, and perhaps more privately than we might care to admit, do tend to enjoy the fact that across the internet, we can shield ourselves from feelings. And we get this really self-centered view that because we don't get our feelings hurt no matter what other people post, those same other people must obviously feel the same way. Duh.

But you're right - we are a very negative lot. I don't want to delve into reasons here, because I'll be wrong, and I hate being wrong almost as much as I hate burnt waffles. And don't get me started on blackened Eggos.

And I don't know if I can really say anything positive, but I'll try. So here goes:
Jas, you're great around here. You're sharp, you're helpful, you don't give in to rumors or hearsay, and I'll be darned if you aren't just a good all-around person on this board. And I think I can speak for just about everyone here when I say we love ya - you're part of our group, and no matter how far away we are from each other geographically, we're your friends. And around here, that's a pretty good thing.