No. This can't be happening to me. No he's not dieing.

Fri Sep 10, 2004 11:48 pm

He can't be. No. Its not true. Oh gosh. What should I do. My Pappy he is very sick and he is to sick to go into surgery. I don't know what to do. I can't let my favorite grandfather die!

Sat Sep 11, 2004 12:11 am

awww...it'll be okay Kyra. Maybe, if he does die, life has taken his course. I mean, If he does, he lived a good life and I'm sure he's happy that he'd die with his life. Everything'll be okay.

Sat Sep 11, 2004 12:42 am

Sorry Kyraa, I know how it feels...I had two grandfathers die in one week.

Try to cheer up. Think about happy stuff.

Oh! Get an Ouija board to contact him.

I'm sure he'll be around...

Sat Sep 11, 2004 1:13 am

Wow. 56? My dad is 50 and my mum is 48. My granddads are in their 80s and 70s.

Sat Sep 11, 2004 1:14 am

Sorry... that was uncalled for. Sorry it has been a very emotional week for me as you can see. Sorry you probably have had at least one persn that you have cared for very much and lost them. I am sorry.

Sat Sep 11, 2004 1:15 am

It's ok Kyra....Just try to soothe yourself.

Sat Sep 11, 2004 1:15 am

Your grandfather is as old as my friends father.
He'll be alright, I know what your going through, trust me on that.
And don't be worried around him, positive energy and thoughts. It transfers through.

Sat Sep 11, 2004 1:19 am

I just... don't want him to move on yet you know..

Sat Sep 11, 2004 1:29 am

I know....but now I jsut dont know what to say...if he's alive you can visit him always...

Sat Sep 11, 2004 1:34 am

Kyra, what kind of surgery is he going under? Some surgery have very small chances of dying, so he may be quite alright in the end.

Sat Sep 11, 2004 1:35 am

I believe she said that he was too sick to undergo the surgery he needed.

Sat Sep 11, 2004 1:49 am

He has to get has his gulbadder revomed. He can't go under surgery because to sick to recover from it. Its a sticky situatin...

Sat Sep 11, 2004 2:09 am

This probably doesn't apply to your grandfather, cause hopfully, the surgery will help, and he'll recover.

But usually, when people have some kind of long term illness or such, and they know they are going to die, the can find peace with it and accept it. I don't know how, and such but it happens. Read the TRUE story in the book "Tuesdays with Morrie". I also saw the finding peace thing happen with the man who got his arm stuck in that rock in the Mid-US and thought he was gonna die, before he cut off his arm. He came to peace.

But I hope your grandfather gets better and recovers.

Sat Sep 11, 2004 5:18 am

You have my best wishes since I cant give anything else.

Sat Sep 11, 2004 7:26 am

ALL four of my grandparents have passed away....before I was born

You have my total faith....why's he going for surgery anyway? What's happened? o_O

Well...try get your mind off the subject. Make a prank call, or write a threatening letter to a celebrity