Now I am seriously tempted to injure my sister BADLY.

Mon Sep 27, 2004 1:47 am

I just came home from the doctor. Nothing serious. Just my knee cap is loose. In a bandage.

Then I come home finding my sister and her friends watching TV in the lounge, and whole HOUSE FULL OF LITTER, SCRAP AND RUBBISH! Chip packets are flying around...my game cards are all torn and gliding everywhere. I would say this all in capital letters and in much worse words but I'm not allowed to.

Now I am seriously tempted to hurt them all....the.....DEVILS!

ARRRRRGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHH!

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Mon Sep 27, 2004 1:50 am

How old is your sister? If she's still really young she simply doesn't know better, but if she's old enough to know better than you have the right to be really angry.

You could talk to your sister about it (if she'll listen to you). If that doesn't work, talk to your parents about it.

Mon Sep 27, 2004 1:52 am

DiscordantNote wrote:How old is your sister? If she's still really young she simply doesn't know better, but if she's old enough to know better than you have the right to be really angry.

You could talk to your sister about it (if she'll listen to you). If that doesn't work, talk to your parents about it.

She's SIXTEEN, 6 years older than me! And I'm in no mood to talk...

ANYWHERE in the house you could still hear them...

Mon Sep 27, 2004 2:38 am

Um...yeah thats very immature and careless...I would be smurf if I found out that my sister did that. But, I know how you feel and I'm the oldest of six so its even harder for me not to break someones neck.

Mon Sep 27, 2004 2:39 am

First of all..you shouldn't even SAY things like you want to hurt your sister or her friends. I am sorry if this comes off rude since you understood me so well in the topic about my little Clay bunny. I'm just serious about this stuff, partly because my friend used to say she'd kill herself all the time.

Now about this mess, its sort of typical. Teenagers, although some seem to think they are really mature (not saying all teenagers are immature), are just kids still. Some people mature faster than others, some it takes a long time. Besides, we all make mistakes and do wrong. Just tell her to not make such messes or clean them up if she does. In a kind manner. Then just forget it and forgive her. Theres no need to be angry forever or make threats without her knowing.

Mon Sep 27, 2004 3:08 am

Kitten Medli wrote:First of all..you shouldn't even SAY things like you want to hurt your sister or her friends. I am sorry if this comes off rude since you understood me so well in the topic about my little Clay bunny. I'm just serious about this stuff, partly because my friend used to say she'd kill herself all the time.

Now about this mess, its sort of typical. Teenagers, although some seem to think they are really mature (not saying all teenagers are immature), are just kids still. Some people mature faster than others, some it takes a long time. Besides, we all make mistakes and do wrong. Just tell her to not make such messes or clean them up if she does. In a kind manner. Then just forget it and forgive her. Theres no need to be angry forever or make threats without her knowing.

Trust me, when you see the mess with your own two eyes...you'll lose control. I'm barely keeping the rage in.

If I ask her that, shell just say "it was them!" And then I'll say "Then why didn't you stop them?" And then she'll say "Cause they're my friends!"

Ok....I'm younger yet mroe mature than her.....they're sitting on ttipped over chairs for god's sake! THOSE COST US LIKE 2 GRAND!

Mon Sep 27, 2004 3:55 am

Lock yourself in your room, blast music if you want. So long as she cleans up the mess that she and her friends made, I don't see the problem. Besides, I doubt you'd want to get into a fight with someone six years older than you. More mature, maybe. But stronger? I think not.

Mon Sep 27, 2004 4:04 am

Sounds like she's going through a rebellious stage. Some teens go through it, and others don't. I didn't, but my older sister did. When she was about 16, I was walking one day and discovered one of my teddy bears ripped, burned, and lying in a puddle a block from my house. Her explanation was that she had gotten bored.
Sounds like your sister and her friends are being destructive for the sake of being destructive. From now on, keep your possessions away from her. Keep them hidden if you have to.
Let your parents deal with her. She's their responsibility, not yours.

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Mon Sep 27, 2004 5:14 am

Chaud wrote:Trust me, when you see the mess with your own two eyes...you'll lose control. I'm barely keeping the rage in.

I doubt so..

Anyways, listen to the other two. They know more than me.

EDIT: Oh, and I forgot to say I'm sorry to hear about your stuff and knee.

And your poor little teddy, Sapphire Faerie.

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Mon Sep 27, 2004 5:16 am

well see i know exactly how u feel.. but the problem is smacking siblings gets u into trouble.. let ur parents deal with them they're gonna be so screwed just stay in your room.. make no attempt to clean it up..

Mon Sep 27, 2004 6:32 am

Sapphire Faerie wrote:Sounds like she's going through a rebellious stage. Some teens go through it, and others don't. I didn't, but my older sister did. When she was about 16, I was walking one day and discovered one of my teddy bears ripped burned and lying in a puddle a block from my house. Her explanation was that she had gotten bored.
Sounds like your sister and her friends are being destructive for the sake of being destructive. From now on, keep your possessions away from her. Keep them hidden if you have to.
Let your parents deal with her. She's their responsibility, not yours.

She MURDERED your teddy?

Poor teddy....

Mon Sep 27, 2004 6:40 am

Poor, poor teddy...

I already cleaned it up. I'm one of those people who can't stand to se a mess, even if it was somebody elses. When it was a wet day everybody was inside the classroom at school, then it was sunny again and everybody went outside again. The boys were playing Kliko and I was too, but they left immediately, but I stayed behind and tidied up.

Did I mention that we have now lost one of our two TV remotes? *eye twitches, attempting to supress rage*

Mon Sep 27, 2004 6:57 am

Chaud wrote:Poor, poor teddy...

I already cleaned it up. I'm one of those people who can't stand to se a mess, even if it was somebody elses. When it was a wet day everybody was inside the classroom at school, then it was sunny again and everybody went outside again. The boys were playing Kliko and I was too, but they left immediately, but I stayed behind and tidied up.

Did I mention that we have now lost one of our two TV remotes? *eye twitches, attempting to supress rage*

Ah, don't worry, our TV remotes go missing all the time

And my hairbrush has a habit of disappearing then re-appearing days later.

Mon Sep 27, 2004 1:16 pm

Aw, I'm sorry to hear that your sister and her friends are getting you edgy, some people don't think of other people and are really inconsiderate at times. Hope your knee gets better soon.

Mon Sep 27, 2004 2:49 pm

I'm so glad I was an only child until I was 15!
My brother lives with my mum so I don't have to put up with him all the time either