Uh oh....crush crushing a crush?

[Chaud]

Ok. There's two crushes I have. Nahyeon, my big one. And on Julia, a growing, smaller one. Julia is a computer expert, a bit less knowledge than me, and less experienced, but I'm 'training' her.

Anyway, we both have MSN and today she admitted it. She said I was everything she's looking for in a boy. So I told her about Nahyeon. (they're friends) She suspected it.

And now I'm afraid if I give up on one, I'll hurt the other. What to do?

[Kitten Medli]

Don't give up on anythig.. just let it drop and see how things flow. In the end you may end up having a crush on a different girl sooner or later.

[Qanda]

Have both as friends. You really don't have to be so serious about relationships until you are past 16. That is because when you are young, crushes do not last. You would be lucky if you had a crush on the same person without any change of heart for more than one year.

[Chaud]

Have both as friends. You really don't have to be so serious about relationships until you are past 16. That is because when you are young, crushes do not last. You would be lucky if you had a crush on the same person without any change of heart for more than one year.

Wow...I've ahd a crush on Nahyeon for 4+ years

Yeah, we're too young to date and stuff.

[Alex]

Have both as friends. You really don't have to be so serious about relationships until you are past 16. That is because when you are young, crushes do not last. You would be lucky if you had a crush on the same person without any change of heart for more than one year.

Wow...I've ahd a crush on Nahyeon for 4+ years

Yeah, we're too young to date and stuff.

4 years? And you're only 10-11?

I'd say that's a tad too young to be obsessed with girls. Put simply, you're too young to know your true feelings. You'll look back in a few years and laugh at yourself ^-^

[Qanda]

Wow...I've ahd a crush on Nahyeon for 4+ years

Yeah, we're too young to date and stuff.

I think what you mean by a "crush" is really a sense of affection or liking for her. That does not necessarily mean love (in the greater sense of it), nor is it likely to translate into marriage or anything. So, as I said, you are free to have both as friends, and you can explain to the other girl that you are just friends and that you all are too young to know deeply about love really.

[Bangel]

Anyway, we both have MSN and today she admitted it. She said I was everything she's looking for in a boy.

Please excuse me while I do an extreme eye roll.

Slap her for me, please. Until her head falls off. No, not for saying she "likes" you, but because apparently no one is understanding that you are all TOO YOUNG. I've told you once, I'll tell you again. However, it's more directed to her than to you this time.

[Qanda]

Anyway, we both have MSN and today she admitted it. She said I was everything she's looking for in a boy.

Please excuse me while I do an extreme eye roll.

Slap her for me, please. Until her head falls off. No, not for saying she "likes" you, but because apparently no one is understanding that you are all TOO YOUNG. I've told you once, I'll tell you again. However, it's more directed to her than to you this time.

That would really be too harsh, I feel. I mean, everyone likes to think that they are in love/have a girlfriend/boyfriend right when they are young, right? It's actually quite harmless.

[Paul]

Anyway, we both have MSN and today she admitted it. She said I was everything she's looking for in a boy.

Please excuse me while I do an extreme eye roll.

Slap her for me, please. Until her head falls off. No, not for saying she "likes" you, but because apparently no one is understanding that you are all TOO YOUNG. I've told you once, I'll tell you again. However, it's more directed to her than to you this time.

It's not in your place to state whether Chaud or Julia is too young to 'like someone.'

[Kitten Medli]

Anyway, we both have MSN and today she admitted it. She said I was everything she's looking for in a boy.

Please excuse me while I do an extreme eye roll.

Slap her for me, please. Until her head falls off. No, not for saying she "likes" you, but because apparently no one is understanding that you are all TOO YOUNG. I've told you once, I'll tell you again. However, it's more directed to her than to you this time.

That would really be too harsh, I feel. I mean, everyone likes to think that they are in love/have a girlfriend/boyfriend right when they are young, right? It's actually quite harmless.

I agree. So excuse me, but that was really rude.

[Bangel]

Sorry. I've been having a bad day, and I shouldn't of taken it out on you, Chaud.

But, still. I remain and always will think you're too young. If I were you, I would tell Julia that she's too young to be looking for things in boys. Qanda, I know it's harmless, but it just... bugs me.

[cap]

Just take it easy. Friends are more valuable than romance. Instead of trying to romance her do some things you'd do with your other friends hang out in a group with them. Just take it easy. Less stressful.

[Kitten Medli]

Sorry. I've been having a bad day, and I shouldn't of taken it out on you, Chaud.

But, still. I remain and always will think you're too young. If I were you, I would tell Julia that she's too young to be looking for things in boys. Qanda, I know it's harmless, but it just... bugs me.

Good girl. *gives dog cookies*

I do agree with you somewhat though..

[Kuri]

The one piece of advice that is popping into my mind is "sit tight". I would be patient and wait for awhile, things will sort themselves out... thats my take on the matter anyway.

[Anubis]

Two words: Too and young. Seriously. I haven't got a boyfriend yet, I don't want a boyfriend yet, I consider myself too young, and I'm older than you are.

Romance is for older people. If you date one of these girls, and you break up with them, you may find it hard to be just friends again. So just... think about it. Please.

Before you do something that can't be reversed without hurting someone's feelings.