Feel like crying...

Mon Nov 15, 2004 4:58 pm

I just heard that my grandparents got in a car accident... My grandmother died. Grandad is still alive, but not doing well.
I feel weird... I want to cry but I can't.

Mon Nov 15, 2004 5:02 pm

I know the feeling, and I don't think words can say how sorry I am for you. ::hugs::

Mon Nov 15, 2004 5:08 pm

Ok, I am crying now... My aunt came over to take care of me and my brother. As soon as she hugged me I started crying...

Mon Nov 15, 2004 5:10 pm

I don't know what to say. *hug* I really don't.

Mon Nov 15, 2004 5:11 pm

I don't know what to say in situations like these... I feel sorry for you... *Hug*

Mon Nov 15, 2004 5:16 pm

Thanks for the support guys...
My grandad is awake now. I don't really feel like getting a dictionary and look up what exactly is wrong with him, but my aunt says he will get better. I know I shouldn't say this, but I think it would have been better if they died together... They have been together every day for over 50 years. I don't think grandad will ever be the same again without grandmom...

Mon Nov 15, 2004 5:38 pm

I don't think he will either...but your whole family will have one another to lean on, which I certainly hope counts for something.

I'm truly sorry for your loss.

Mon Nov 15, 2004 5:46 pm

I feel a bit better now... I just imagine my gran freaking the other people in heaven out with her singing

She used to sing every day, everywhere. Heh, my granny rocked ^.^
The weird thing is that I start crying as soon as people hug me...

Mon Nov 15, 2004 5:52 pm

I think it's just the human contact that sometimes makes you realise everything.

I know what you mean about almost wishing they'd died together...my grandfather's gone downhill since my grandma died seven years ago. =/

Mon Nov 15, 2004 5:54 pm

I almost felt sad when mom told me he was awake... I don't want him to go through all this.

Mon Nov 15, 2004 5:55 pm

::hugs:: I honestly know how you feel. PM or IM me if you need to talk, OK? Even if I don't really know you...I do know how you feel.

Mon Nov 15, 2004 6:04 pm

Awwww. *huge hugs*

I know how you feel. We are pretty sure our bunnies were brothers. When one died, all the more I love George, I wished they could be together.. but I wanted them together here.

I'm really sorry for your loss, Tomatie tomato.

Mon Nov 15, 2004 6:25 pm

I'm so sorry sweetie. Car accidents are awful awful things... I was just in one and luckily I'm only confined to crutches for 6 weeks. If you ever need someone to talk to, drop me a PM or AIM me.

*hugs* It might be awhile until you're ready to cry... you just need to get over the shock first. *more hugs*

Mon Nov 15, 2004 6:30 pm

Thanks again :hug:

I don't feel shocked at all... I'm quite calm, actually.... Bet it's a shock.

Edit: it has been on the news... Car accident with truck in the south of the Netherlands.
Grandad is ok, my dad just talked with him. He doesn't know about grandma yet.

Mon Nov 15, 2004 10:27 pm

I'm so sorry for your loss.

I hate trucks. Stopped driving completely after one close call. Walking is less life-risking, thank you.