I used to be very involved in the online modification community, so I always feel compelled to reply to threads on piercings at every forum I'm a member of.
FIRST. Visit
safepiercing.org. This is the website of the Association of Professional Piercers, the authority on absolutely everything about piercings. Read everything under the "getting pierced" tab. ALL of it. There are so many misconceptions out there, this site will debunk them and add on to thinks you might not have ever thought about.
SECOND. Locate a piercer. I know you have one in mind, but the site above explains what constitutes a good one. Does your preferred studio match up? On the issues you're not sure of (autoclaves and spore tests etc), call/visit and ask. If something doesn't seem right or they get defensive when you question issues, use the Locate a Piercer link to find someone else in your area. A good piercer will be enthusiastic about proving why they are the best. If anything on the good piercer page is met with "Well, that's not really necessary because..." they are wrong. For example, "We don't have an autoclave because we use alcohol wipes / boil everything in water / some other stupid excuse." Autoclaves kill ALL microbial life, it is what dentists and doctors use; if they used alcohol wipes they would be in a lawsuit so fast... ahem.
THIRD. Consider your individual circumstances. Your job, your parents (if they have the reigns in your finances it's best not to upset them
), etc. Do you sleep on your face/side of your head? Do you have the time to devote to your salt soaks (10 minutes twice a day for 2 months minimum)? Are you okay going all summer without your face in a pool? I usually recommend people get pierced right after it gets too cold to swim, so there is no temptation. Also helps avoid the issue of piercings taking longer to heal than normal (Hi my navel took a year and a half to heal no I am not bitter DO I SOUND BITTER?? Hahaha, kidding. But yeah it happens and it sucks)
FOURTH. Do it! Go in on a lazy day after you've had a good meal, and take it easy for the day/weekend. Food helps with not being woozy, rest helps with not irritating it. Don't be afraid to ask your piercer any questions you have. Don't worry about pain. Everyone is different, and in the end half a second of pain doesn't matter for a hopefully lifelong piercing. The best way to describe it is a pinch, but oddly the pain doesn't linger like pinching skin in a hinge. Instead you have this lingering... "weirdness" and "awareness" of the area.
FIFTH. Keep up with it. Your aftercare should continue the full 8 weeks, and then you should evaluate if it's healed or not. Lymph (that clear crusty stuff that forms) means it is still healing, so wait for it to stop. There should be no redness or tenderness, it will feel like a normal part of your body. Only now can you change jewelry (but I would advise picking what you like and keeping it there all the time). Eyebrows are technically surface piercings, because the flesh on either side of the post is not symmetrical. This means it may migrate, reject, or irritate easily. Migrating is it simply moving to a place that works better for it. Rejecting is your body getting rid of it. It's characterized by redness, especially in a straight line following the embedded jewelry. If it is doing this, it must be removed to minimize scarring. If you're not sure, visit your piercer to see what they think. Infections, on the other hand, are characterized by non-clear pus: usually a yellow/green, sometimes pink discharge; also the area is red, warm to the touch, and very tender. It is important to not simply remove the jewelry. Wounds heal from the outside in: this could trap the infection in the middle resulting in an abscess. Go to your doctor to be prescribed oral antibiotics (pills not ointments!), and keep cleaning the piercing.
Things to avoid:
Neosporin and other ointments (traps bacteria, says on the label "not for puncture wounds")
Smelly, colorful, non- anti-microbial soaps.
Hydrogen peroxide etc. (too harsh that can kill developing tissues)
Cotton balls/swabs (this one's controversial, but I believe it can leave tiny fibers around the post which harbors bacteria)
Externally threaded jewelry (the screw is on the part of the jewelry that goes through the piercing, tears flesh every time it goes in/out)
Things to have:
Sea salt, preferably as plain as possible (non-iodized, no anti-caking agents)
Tap water is fine, but distilled water is best
Anti-microbial soap with no perfumes or dyes. Usually used by the medical community. The brands Satin and Provon are favorites.
A shot glass (to soak)
A tightly-woven tea towel or similar for pat-drying after a soak/shower. The fuzzier it is the more fibers it leaves behind. (Edit: the APP apparently recommends paper products. They know more than me sooo paper towel > tea towel. Makes sense.)
Internally-threaded jewelry (the screws are on the balls, holes are on the post. More expensive and harder to find, but worth it)
WOW. I'm long winded, but all of the above is important! Good luck and happy healing! For additional reading, I used
Tribalectic as a source when I was a newbie.
Edit: Forgot! A salt soak is 1/8 to 1/4 tsp salt in 8oz warm water. The less salt, the stronger the soak. Backwards, eh? Nope! The salt is used to slow down the osmosis of your slightly salty blood to the very-very-very-slightly salty water, dragging salt and bacteria from the piercing to the water. Ideally the process would involve no salt in the water: The salt is so that it's not as quick/harsh as a straight-water soak. Many people do not know this, and try to "help it along" by putting extra salt in. This REVERSES the process. If you think you're sensitive do 1/4, if you think you're "tough" do 1/8. If you have no idea what I just said, do 1/4 tsp 8oz water.