Frustrated. My new apartment has a new, awesome back porch, which they built soon after I moved in. So all my garden stuff had to live on my front porch in a heap until it was ready. By the time it was ready, I started house-sitting, and there was no point in making the garden if I couldn't water it daily (containers really need daily watering in our hot GA summers).
My roommate told me we got a notice on our door that the front porch was untidy, but she tossed it, saying I might have to get rid of some of the pots. I told her I'd stop by the next day to tidy it up, which I did -- and then she told me after I got there not to worry about it, that she'd explain it to the landlord, and it could wait until I'm back. Today we got an e-mail from the landlord, to which I quickly replied explaining the situation, and she was very understanding.
Then I got a text from the roommate saying the landlord said I had too many pots and could we get rid of all but one or two. I explained that I'd replied and reiterated that my house-sitting gig ends tomorrow, and then I can take care of it, figure out how the garden will look, see what we need and what might be excess, etc.
And now she's badgering me by text about how she wants tables and chairs on the back porch, so could I keep all my gardening stuff on the front porch (which gets absolutely no sun, unlike the back, and also only has about 2' x 1' of usable space thanks to all the doors). I explained why that wouldn't work, saying there was plenty of space for tables, chairs, and plants, and she said she doesn't want the outside looking cluttered because "this is an apartment not a house."
There are maybe ten pots of various sizes... And our back porch is at least 8'x8'. Plus we do have the front porch, windowsills, and the area AROUND the back porch. We may not need all the pots. But I wish she would just chill out for two more days, especially since she's the one who told me last week not to bother even though I made a special trip just to deal with it. She's so frigging controlling, and the way she says things, it's just 'so this is how it's going to be, because this is what I want.'
While I was gone, she put her desk out in the middle of the living room, and moved the containers with my weights in them from the floor along the wall (where she'd agreed to have them) onto the window seat. Bah. Now I have to move all that stuff AGAIN with an injured arm. And I'm sorry, but I don't want her ugly desk in the living room.... But I'm not sure that's an argument I'm willing to have, since she's also entitled to living room space. Though it is right next to the TV and in the main walkway from the front door to the kitchen, which seems a really weird place for your desk. But whatever; if she wants her desk out there, fine, as long as she's not going to stop me from watching TV or hanging with friends in the main space because she's working on something (not that I do either of those things very often at all, but still...).
Anyway, it's just a little frustrating. I texted her back saying we could talk about it in person, and reiterating that I will figure things out once I start planting, which is only 2 more days away. That seems to have ended her assault of texts. For now. *sigh*
Again, sorry for the rant. Thanks for letting me vent.
Blue graffitied on my signature... But it made me laugh, so it's all good!
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