Starchaser wrote:
Yeah, but school
is part of the world. Although I agree that all different kinds of schools make you self-sufficient, I think people who go to public school tend (for some part) to be less sheltered. Private schools are a lot smaller, for one thing, so there's more attention focused on you. If you go to a school of 5,000, like I do, you kind of have to look out for yourself.
Things I've learned from my public schools:
* How to deal with bueracracy/authority figures
* How to motivate myself to deal with work/assignments (I guess that's true for all schools, although mine is among one of the more pressuring ones)
*How to take care of issues for myself
*How to take care of possessions, etc... If you leave something around here for 5 minutes, it's gone
*How to meet new people, and build a social circle
And on the lighter side:
*How not to be distracted - I don't even look up when I hear explosions or the fire alarm any more
*How not to get lost!
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But for most of those things you can learn at privite schools too, and from other things.
Like, I learned how to take care of my things living with one year old. And both my parents work full time so I learned how to take care of issues myself. And I learned how to ride my bicycle places without getting lost.
Igg wrote:
People who have been homeschooled or educated privately, that I've known, tend to be more sensitive to mor'common' people (I'm pretty common myself). They also, annoyingly, seem to have this view that most people in comprehensive education "act dumber than they really are", or even that we just are dumb.
I have that view because its what I've seen from kids who go to public school. Just like you have the view that privately education.
I know that not everyone is dumb, or acts dumb, but to me it seems like a lot of kids do. Of course some home schoolers probably act that way too.
Igg wrote:
And yes, I do take the view that, in general, people who are educated on the state system....well, I wouldn't say they learn to be self sufficient, but they learn...err, how do I put this... the way it is inside one of these schools is more like it is in the world. When you are in a selective school, whether you have an active social life outside of school or not, you DO spend a lot of your time in a sheltered environment.
That I do agree with. I wasn't implying that public school doesn't toughen you up, just that it doesn't really make you self sufficient.
Igg wrote:
It's a sad generalisation that people who are privately educated have a blinkered view of the world, and when they leave school they find it difficult to cope with some people, but it is quite often true, however you defend it. Just not to the extent that some people claim. Yes, education does have some bearing on how you deal with the world. However, so does your social life.
What exactly do you mean by "blinkered?" We aren't blinded from the world.