Marinnai Kasaraki wrote:
I'm not saying parents are lazy, though some may fall under the category at some point, but it would help if they sat their kid down and explained that stealing is wrong, and when it comes down to copyrighted artworks, it's not to be done. At all.
What peeves me is she's been told many times that it's stealing. She's been reported as a thief around 6 times by different folks on DA. Yet she continues to do it and doesn't get why so many folks are angry at her for stealing and altering these original arts.
I did originally put it down to this kid not realising it was wrong, but watching her re-upload these arts, with same description and everything, it makes me wonder if this generation is actually being raised right?
Mari, I haven't had this experience with artwork, but just this past weekend I got a good taste of what you were talking about. Let me preface: I live in a very wealthy suburb of Chicago. Most of the houses here cost almost more than my steelworker dad made in his entire lifetime. Many of the kids who live here are spoiled beyond imagination. You ask, why do you live there, then? Only because it has the best school system in the state. And, my kid isn't the average, ordinary kid. She needs a school that can deal with her talents and intellect. So, we scrimped and saved to move to a dinky little house on the "wrong side of the tracks" in this wealthy town. We aren't dripping with money, but we do OK.
Back to my story. My pre-teen daughter and her friend went to the park. The friend set her jacket down next to the countless other jackets and my daughter put her eyeglasses ($300 +) and her brand-new mini IPOD inside it. Other kids are playing around there and everyone puts their jacket and "stuff" on the ground. Remember, this is a town where some people don't even lock their doors at night. No strangers around the park, just other kids--kids just like my daughter.
My daughter and her friend played--and never strayed too far from where the jacket was set down. But, upon returning to that area, they saw two older kids close to where the jacket had been set down. Getting closer, they saw that the jacket was gone. They asked the two kids--wealthy, white kids who live in a wealthy town--if they saw the jacket. My daughter explained that her eyeglasses were in the jacket and starts getting visibly upset about their loss. The kids hesitated and looked guilty as sin, according to my daughter, and then ran away to a house across the street--a house that we later discovered had been abandoned for several months.
Needless to say, the eyeglasses, IPOD, and jacket were never found. My guess is that those two kids stole the stuff inside the jacket and then ran to the abandoned house to hide. The eyeglasses and IPOD were set inside the jacket in a way that they would have fallen to the ground if anyone had picked up the jacket--so this wasn't a case of someone mistakenly thinking it was their jacket. My daughter knew all of the other kids who had been at the park at the time--none of them had been around the jacket and she is positive that none of them would have done this. But, she didn't know these other two kids. And, according to her, these two kids looked like they came from wealthy families--nice designer clothes, etc. So, they probably had the money to buy whatever they stole. Maybe they did it for kicks--or to see if they could get away with it. Maybe to sell the stuff for money to buy other things?
Sure, my daughter shouldn't have left anything of value laying on the ground. But, kids here do it all of the time. No one thinks that the "white bread" kid in the designer jacket and Air Jordans swinging on the swings next to them will steal their stuff. She has learned, the hard way, about being scammed in real life.
What gets my hair to stand on end is the fact that my daughter was crying to these kids about her eyeglasses. I mean, really, what good are those eyeglasses to anyone? Stealing the nice jacket and the IPOD is one thing, but a kid's glasses? That takes a lot of nerve. And, proves to me that these kids were not properly raised.
In this wealthy little suburb of mine, lots of the kids are raised by nannies because the moms HAVE to work--not for the money, mind you. But, because they feel the need to do so--because they were professionals before the babies came, so they have to go on being professionals after the babies arrived. No offense to the nannies, but they are paid to do a job--not to instill morals and values into the kids they are watching. And lots of these kids go home after school to empty houses and fend for themselves until mom or dad gets home from work. No one to watch over their actions or to tell them their actions are totally unacceptable. Many of these parents are too busy working 60 hour work weeks, playing tennis at the Country Club, or power-shopping to know just exactly what their kids are getting into.
Last year, one of these kids--from a very well-to-do family--came to school with home-made explosives. Seems he gets bored being left alone in the house and figured out a way to occupy his free time.
So, Mari, I know where you are coming from. I would like to throttle a few people. But, where the heck do you start?
EDIT: And, ahoteinrun, I have just three words for you: "You go, girl." I do believe there'd be many an art thief running around without hands or feet if you ever got close to them.
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