Kurisutaru wrote:
Well I read through the thread and I think many of the suggestions are good ones. If all else fails you could always consider changing your phone number and making it unlisted. Of course thats rather drastic and would probably be a last resort (at least at my house it would be).
If you do end up going that route, it's generally recommended that you leave the original line connected to an answering machine, and only give your real number to a very select number of people. It is very possible for people to easily get a hold of unlisted numbers (as I sadly know), and disconnecting the line that the person calling you has more often makes them try harder rather than discouraging them.
I'm not sure what your local laws are on recording conversations, but you may want to look into that as an option as well. Some areas allow you to do it so long as one person on the call (you) knows it's being done, but others require both people to be aware of the recording. As an alternative, you can also just say "Operator, this is the call," and hang up (similar to a previous suggestion). That often freaks people into giving up.
Also, just so it's clear (since I've heard people be concerned about this), having a trap put on your line does not mean that your calls are monitored in any way; it really just means that the phone company is logging the numbers that call you. That's why you have to keep a log -- it's all that allows them to match the correct number(s) to the harassing calls. Do be aware, though, that the phone company isn't generally allowed to release the number(s) that are harassing you to you or your family, but they will give all necessary information to law enforcement. Even without a trap in place, though, it does help to keep a log of what times the calls are received... the police tend to take your complaints more seriously when you're organized and have lots of paper things with dates and times and all to give them (sad, but very true).