MyleneFarmer wrote:
Just remind yourself that there is probably a reason for this. Although she shouldn't have mentioned that she had a secret if she didn't want you to know. But still, try to think of it in the best light possible if you can. Friendships can be really weird sometimes. It'll happen from time to time. Just let her know that you're always there for her to talk to, just so she truly understands that you are. (My friends constantly have to reassure me that they actually like me...by now they probably don't because they're sick of having to say that they do) I know I keep plenty of secrets from my best friend. Although that's mainly because she likes to share them with her girlfriend. >_<
Hehe, yeah, I guess she must have some reason for it. (other people know, though, but not me. T_T) Ah well, I'm not going to think about that all day, so whatever. Thanks for that though, Mylene =).
MyleneFarmer wrote:
Anyway, I'm really frustrated right now. My husband and I went out to hit around a bit (tennis) and I played terribly. I got a new racket a week ago, and I can't adjust to it. I can't get any power on my shots, and it's driving me nuts. It's not important, it's just tennis, but still, I was kind of proud of the improvements I had made in my game, and now they've just sort of vanished.
I went through the same thing when I was playing badminton. Actually, I go through that a lot, including with instruments like piano or flute. I just think you've got to practise, and even if you do bad, you know you'll gradually improve =). Or maybe you're just having a bad day (that happens to me often with piano when I'm feeling emotionless, since I play very... evenly with no expression =(. I often do better the next day, though!)
Ah, today was great =). Mostly, anyways. Except for this bully in my french class.