heh, this forum was a little confusing until I realized that what I was seeing was the already-filtered version of all this stuff.
for instance, I have no idea what phrase got turned into "lol" in this thread, and so I was sitting here going "oh my gosh am I going to get a warning for abbreviating laugh out loud?! have I typed that today?!!"
So I went and read the Rules and Guidelines again, and sure enough, there isn't really a list of Forbidden Words.
I originally started this post to ask someone to post them, somewhere secret, somewhere safe (ha) so that we would have a reference, but now that I think about it, I figure as long as I'm not posting any of the words/phrases that *I* know are off limits, and I sure wouldn't post any words/phrases that I don't already know.... so I'm pretty much not in danger of accidentally posting something naughty. Still, I don't know, maybe there is a way you could clarify what is going on in this thread, so that other people don't have a heart attack thinking "ack! I'm not allowed to say what the heck!"
On a slightly related note, when I was little (2-3 grade) I drew a picture of a skunk and a person nearby with a text box that said "P.U." which is the sound you make when you smell a skunk (normally spelled "pew" or "phew!")... I was a star student and the only time my principal ever looked at me disapprovingly was when she looked over my shoulder at that picture... I don't know what she thought, because I didn't keep the picture and nobody ever told me what bad word it was that I was supposed to have written. At the time I was completely baffled as to why Mrs. Forbes would look at
ME disapprovingly...
gee, I didn't know P.U. was a bad word!? Looking back, I can guess that apparently the P looked like an F, or else the U looked like an O.
But everyone here is old enough that we won't accidentally come up with letter combinations or words that just HAPPEN to be offensive. At least, the likelihood is pretty slim. If you're offending someone, you either did it on purpose, or else failed to think about whether you were being offensive.
So.... think first, avoid strikes!