Tested wrote:
No, no, no, no, no.
What if the person dies? You'd have a daily reminder of someone who died, even if it never went past boyfriend/girlfriend.
I'd never.
Tribute/Memorial tattoos can also be part of a healing process, there was a woman who came on the show Miami Ink, she brought her little girl, maybe eight years old. Her son was stillborn or died at two years old, I don't remember the circumstances, but getting the tattoo was not just another way to never forget her son, it was a part of a healing process for her.
Like everyone has already said, tattoos are permanent. You can lose your house in a fire, every picture you ever had, but as long as you have your skin you still remember.
You sit in a chair for hours at a time, you talk about why you want to get the tattoo, what it means to you, and just reflect on everything. And then you get up, and go back to your life.
Tested wrote:
Slightly funny anecdote: Once, a friend of my sister mentioned my sister's name to some guy who was completely drunk.
And now my sister's name is on that guy's butt.
And she's married. And was when this happened.
A lot of tattoo shops won't tattoo you while you're intoxicated. In fact, I wouldn't go to one that would. When I got my ear pierced, I had to sign a paper that said I wasn't under the influence of drugs or alcohol.
Tested wrote:
Twinkle wrote:
If they meant enough to you to get it tattooed on you for life, surely they'd mean even more in death?
If someone meant that much to me, I wouldn't need a tattoo to say it...
You don't see people who've been married for several years getting their names tattooed on each other, because they'll have those memories either way.
Um what? Lots of couples get tattoos for each other, a symbol that represents their relationship (one couple got the ohm symbol on their arms) One of the girls I used to work with was planning on getting a tattoo with her husband, its something they both want and want to do together.
Honestly now, theres nothing wrong with getting a tattoo, theres nothing wrong with getting a name tattooed on you, as long as you
think it through. Someone once said, write down your idea, and put it in a drawer for six months. If in six months you still want that tattooed on you, get it.