Green Lady of the knoll wrote:
Fiddelysquat , there are alot of politics, I hate to hear they gave your friend Pam such a hard time over drinking A drink, I hope it didn't give Jim any problems. How do they like Japan?
Pam likes some things about Japan, but for the most part she is very homesick, doesn't feel she fits in with the other wives, and is really bothered by how hostile many of the Japanese act towards foreigners that live in their country. A lot of the wives pretty much just drink and flirt/do a whole lot more than flirt with strange men while their husbands are at sea. She's found one or two that are nice to hang out with, though. She and Jim are very close and while she's certainly strong enough to endure his months at sea, she misses him very much while he's away. When he is at home with her they go out and do things and see the sights, but they prefer to do those things together. She's coming home in October for a few months and can hardly wait.
As for Jim, he's very smart and is doing well at his job, and as he's ranking up so fast it's the "in thing" to be his friend, he's only made very few actual friends who aren't just sucking up. He'll be at sea for a couple more months. They e-mail eachother all the time, but I know it's real hard on both of them. I don't know if he'll make a lifelong career out of the Navy, but he's thinking about it. As for him getting in trouble over the drink, he was told that if his wife made any more "unseemly displays" she'd get sent home to America. That slimy jerk had said a whole bunch of crap to his superior. I've heard about some other disgustingly underhanded tricks he's pulled, and I wouldn't be surprised if it were the dear ambition of many on that boat to "accidentally" push him overboard.